It might be worth working towards it.... for starters atleast sharing it with me....lol...
Am a regular guy, well educated, good job, downtown Minneapolis. Love Golf and reading.
Am looking to meet a woman I can have a conversation with and get to know - can start over lunch and see where it goes.
I think I am fun to talk to and yes do not only talk about sports......6 ft, 170lbs
By the way, am not looking to fall in love or a committed relationship- but yes, I think I can be a loving person....and sensitive too.
I am a 30 year old professional black male seeking to meet someone new. No expectations, but I wouldn't mind if it led to something.
I am 5'10" and in pretty good shape. Some call me attractive. I am gainfully employed and have my life in order.
I take joy in the little things in life and am more likely to be found reading a book or watching a movie than at a club. For the last few days I've been enjoying the Indian summer.
A bit about you:
I'm open-minded, but It would be nice if you are easy going and appreciate irony.
Please attach a pic with your response. I will reciprocate.
Please don't waste either of our time by sending me any invitations to webcams, websites, anything from "your friend's account" or other spam.
Not that you would know since you are probably responding from half way around the globe!
Looking for someone who can skip down the sidewalk dodging the blowing leaves. Baggage, sure we all have it at our age. If we dont, I think maybe we did not take enough chances in life. So, if you like to play life safe and dont take chances, then best to you. If you are adventurous in ALL areas of your life and you dont have a problem being yourself around people, then lets talk. Coming out of a long term relationship and would like to meet some new people and make some new friends. If it turns out to be more than that, great.
If you can run up and down trails, jump logs, ride horses, work out and are in shape then let's meet. If you have been a couch potato for the last 15 or 20 years, overweight, working on it or whatever.....well, I just dont think you could keep up with me. I need someone who is sort of like the energizer bunny
Oh, I should ask if YOU would like spam with that? I know I do!
Let me take you to lunch and lets get know each other...
THE MN WOMEN’S DATING DELEMA??? What does that mean? Well I have noticed on CL and many other dating sites that women don’t put any pics on here? You get what you put into life! So you don’t want someone seeing you on a dating site, well that same person that you know, that saw you here, is here too??? If guys don’t have a pic, they are too lazy or too broke to afford a camera or camera phone, lol… Let’s be real, the guys that are worth your time are guys like myself that are here week after week. Why You Ask??? Well, we are the ones that take the time to post weekly, to put the effort in and let you know more than one sentence, and who we are! Like in most things in life first impressions are everything! SO LET”S GET STARTED!
Ok, Ok, Ok… I seem to catch a lot of women’s attention….. But no luv matches? Everyone is looking for that perfect someone, but I’m a realistic person,WHO’S not so PERFECT!!!
Where do I start? I guess my main question would be why is it so hard to meet someone fun, sexy, intelligent and 100% REAL in this state of Minnesota??? Does anyone out here realize anymore that life is too short for all of the games? I like to keep my life very real. I have done the bar thing, phone thing, blind date thing, aff thing, lol. church thing, myspace thing, store thing, but never have met my perfect connection? So I can't be "lookin for luv in all the wrong places" lol.
So I thought I would try this, have had a few friends say it worked for them too.
About me...
I’m 32, and am having a blast in life. I do not look my age at all from what I have been told, I look 25 and how I feel! I am 5'10", 200lbs, bald - cleanly shaven head, honey glazed tan complexion - black/white/indian, like to work out as much as I can now days. Have my own cars, motorcycle, nice dresser, and am self employed. I luv 2 try most anything new in life and meet everyone at-least once... I like to ride my rocket, go mudding, golf, biking, the gym, sports events, shopping, the zoo, roller blading, camping, movies, music, clubs, blah, blah, and most anything fun!
“I Live For Today, Because Tomorrow Is Never Promised 2 Anyone!"
I am from Minnesota and have lived in many different places including Vegas for 6+ years. This is where I am, But not where wanna grow old. Lol.
Lastly, But never Least...
WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR...
It's simple and I know she, her, you, is out there... I want a woman that loves herself, who she is and the woman she will become. A woman that is open to life and all it has to offer. A woman that loves a new challenge in life. A woman that knows she is beautiful both inside and out. Whom takes good care of her body, mind and soul. I luv women of all races, have dated all races. I want to date a woman, were it could maybe turn into more. I can get one nighters anywhere, like us all, but that’s not what I’m looking for... I would like 2 meet a single woman, takes good care of her body (we have to have an attraction to each other), and has some of the same interests that I have. I don’t think I am asking too much, just be as real as I am... “LUV THE SKIN UR IN” LOL… n maybe have a job, car and ur own place??? LOL??? I feel funny doing this whole craigs list thing, but I figure "what the hell could it hurt" the worst that could happen is I meet some new friends... PLEASE NO GAMES, NO DATING SITE, NO Web Hookers. If I'm what you may be looking for, please attach a pic. just as I have, ONLY fair... and let’s go from there. Hope to hear from you soon... T.
The Bad
I do not have a lot of time on my hands my 2 cute kids keep me busy
and i do have fault but depending on who you are and what you like some fault i have you might like
I would like to meet some one that has kids or does not mind being around kids i am not looking for a new mom for my kids they have a mother I want a honest loving caring person that does not play game.Just be your self I do not want a short term thing i want a long term relationship i love playing with my kids taking walk going to the park watching movies cuddling and a lot more and if want to know more please send me a message
Thank You for reading this and you have a great day
For those of you not yet annoyed by my sarcasm, I'll share a bit about myself. I'm 26, work full time, go to grad school, have my own car (which apparently is a big deal around here) also don't live with my parents (also, a big deal). I'm a pretty laid back guy, and fairly hard to not get along with. I enjoy going out, but between work and school I'm fairly busy, and most week nights are pretty low key. There's more that I could share about myself, but if I did that now, I'd probably have nothing to to tell you once you let me take you out for dinner.
What I'm looking for. I guess for starters someone who enjoys (or at least tolerates) my sarcasm. Does honesty outweigh vanity? If so, I'll be honest, and state that I'm looking for someone I find attractive. What does that entail exactly? I'm not sure. At the risk of being an ass, I'll state that I prefer smaller/athletic girls. Maybe that makes me an ass, but I think attraction is pretty key in any relationship, and if that physical attraction isn't there it's hard to make things work. Does that mean I'm attractive? Good question. I don't think I'm ugly. My scale doesn't recommend dieting tips (I don't actually own a scale). I've been told I'm cute, but what do I know, I'm not very good at judging guys attractiveness. So if you pass the attractive test, I'm looking for someone down to earth, low key, funny, cute. If it takes you 2 hours to get ready to go to the grocery store, I'm not interested. If your comfortable in sweats most of the time, but enjoy getting all glam'd up for a night out, that's cool. I'm a huge sports fan, but that's not a requirement of you, as long as you'll pretend to care when I bitch about the vikes or twins losing for 20 seconds, we'll be good. I'd like someone who is employed, who is looking to make the most out of life, who has goals and aspirations.
For those of you not yet annoyed by my sarcasm, I'll share a bit about myself. I'm 26, work full time, go to grad school, have my own car (which apparently is a big deal around here) also don't live with my parents (also, a big deal). I'm a pretty laid back guy, and fairly hard to not get along with. I enjoy going out, but between work and school I'm fairly busy, and most week nights are pretty low key. There's more that I could share about myself, but if I did that now, I'd probably have nothing to to tell you once you let me take you out for dinner.
What I'm looking for. I guess for starters someone who enjoys (or at least tolerates) my sarcasm. Does honesty outweigh vanity? If so, I'll be honest, and state that I'm looking for someone I find attractive. What does that entail exactly? I'm not sure. At the risk of being an ass, I'll state that I prefer smaller/athletic girls. Maybe that makes me an ass, but I think attraction is pretty key in any relationship, and if that physical attraction isn't there it's hard to make things work. Does that mean I'm attractive? Good question. I don't think I'm ugly. My scale doesn't recommend dieting tips (I don't actually own a scale). I've been told I'm cute, but what do I know, I'm not very good at judging guys attractiveness. So if you pass the attractive test, I'm looking for someone down to earth, low key, funny, cute. If it takes you 2 hours to get ready to go to the grocery store, I'm not interested. If your comfortable in sweats most of the time, but enjoy getting all glam'd up for a night out, that's cool. I'm a huge sports fan, but that's not a requirement of you, as long as you'll pretend to care when I bitch about the vikes or twins losing for 20 seconds, we'll be good. I'd like someone who is employed, who is looking to make the most out of life, who has goals and aspirations.
If you meet (and put up with) my shallow requirements, I can assure you that I will be that nicest guy you've ever met. I feel that the role of a boyfriend is to make you the happiest you've ever been, but again, if I don't feel that connection, it's hard to put the effort in for that.
I'm 5'10
Black
Fit body
Funny
Got a job, a car and my own place
Confident
Can be brutally honest at times
You
Should be a woman
Should have a job
Be comfortable with yourself
Same height or shorter than me
Body type: Fit to thick. If you are 5'5 weigh 170-180 and are pear shaped, you are thick.
I want a girl who is comfortable in her own skin, loves life, loves to laugh, hates drama, has or had kids at home. A true MILF
She is successful, driven and outgoing. She looks great in jeans and a t-shirt and also looks great dressed up for a night on the town.
I do enjoy the finer things in life, fast cars, boats, bikes and wild women.
I am well traveled, successful, have a wonderful home, life and love to laugh.
I am in shape, attractive (so I have been told) outgoing, straight forward and live life everyday.
Life is short, I am here to enjoy the ride.
Just need someone to ride along!
I do think all women are wonderful! Each and everyone have something to offer but here is a short list of what I am looking for!
I like a women who wears a string bikini to the beach, is comfortable in her skin, outgoing, and open minded. Loves life and has the ability to see beyond today and look forward to the next one!
Jealousy will kill any relationship and goes hand in hand with trust. We can't help but notice the tall blond that walks in the restaurant.....because we are guys....not because we are "checking her out" or want get in her pants. We are there for YOU. If you don't trust your man ...forget it. Must enjoy SOME of the same things. I don't expect you to know who is pitching for the Twins opener, but at least come to the bar with us to watch the game. These little things go a long way. One of the biggest things that will kill a relationship for most guys is the fact that have to pay for you everywhere you go. I'm not cheap and pay almost most of the time, but if a woman just expects it....forget it. These kind of women have no idea. If a guy pays for you all the time and waits on you hand and foot....he's not a man. He's a tool.
Last but not least...the bedroom. Guys want the classy, well dressed respectful kind of women, but in the bedroom it all changes. Guys want girls to be a porn star.....not degrading kind, but a pornstar. Guys love sex...if its good. She must have the same appetite for sex as we do. Out the longer relationships i've had they have all had one thing in common: great sex. Guys want random, crazy, open minded, let loose sex. Here is a tip....instead of giving a guy flowers (ive got them on a date and I was like wtf i'm I going to do with this?).. give him head...(I'm not talking first date)...He'll appreciate this way more than anything you could give him. I guarantee this.....SO
About me: The basics - 27 years old, 5'9", Professional hairstylist, slim/fit, 150lbs, originally from California, and I live downtown in Mpls.
The details: I'm always changing, and for the best. I love wine, dancing, meeting new people, hair my passion :) Honest, straight forward, good sense of humor, kind, and always trying to think positively. Music, ah yes, another passion. I love Disco, Dark/Wave, House, Techno, Italo, and if you happen to any of those same attributes, bonus. I am an avid bicyclist too:) I am definitely passionate and sensual, however, I am looking for a relationship or friends that could work into one. Everything else falls into place naturally..
About you: I'm not perfect, and I don't expect you to be, I just hope what I wrote will match up for you deep down and you'll write if you think you might be the right one. Attractiveness is also a bonus, because we need to need to be attracted to eachother :) Age is not important. Just be able to have fun, love music, have an eye for some fashions, open to more, and it could work out possible. Maybe we could appreciate one another's interests, if not share them..
Hope to hear from you soon. Maybe we could start with a coffee..even a dance
Cheers,
R
p.s. I only say this because I've been trying and getting no pictures, please send an email with a picture (This photo is with a client on her birthday and her friend)
Always been in long-term relationships but they have always just dwindled. Looking to find someone who keeps me guessing; the person who amazes me more and more each day. Want someone who brings as much to the table as I do. Think you can keep me guessing? If so, read on!
What/Who I'm seeking: You should be... 23-35 (age isn't as much of a factor as other things), optimistic, driven, able to laugh and like to joke (if you don't have a sense of humor, please don't reply), physically attractive (nice smile is a must), take care of your body, outgoing, athletic, looking for a long-term relationship, genuine, compassionate, responsible and have goals. Someone who, much like me, just wants to get the most out of life.
Have I piqued your interest? Let me know. Picture is preferred but not necessary right away. One sentence responses will be completely ignored - sorry. I'm not looking to jump into anything nor am I desperate. Just seeing who is out there in this crazy world of craigslist.
I have a slender build and I'm about 5'8” tall with brown hair and brown eyes.
I am clean and usually have a neat appearance.
I'm an easy going, honest, and loyal guy.
I'm a hardworking, dedicated and successful (or at least I'd like to think so).
I have my own place, car, steady job and live within my means.
I work with computers most of the day so I am a bit of a geek.
I live a drama-free life (no crazy ex's or anything). I do not smoke/drink/do any drugs.
I am not looking for fwb, no-strings-attached sex (nsa), etc.
Info about you:
You are 21-34 yrs old, slender-athletic built.
You are looking for a LTR.
You are happy on your own, but feel you might be happier with someone special.
You match some/most of my qualities.
You are independent and can support your own.
You like dogs.
You're not looking for a sugar-daddy...
Some more random things: I am a bit shy until I get to know people. I listen to mostly rock/metal but only usually in the car. I am a bit of a computer junkie. I have a dog that I enjoy. I usually enjoy spending time with family/friends. I tend to be more of a home body, preferring a night watching movies versus going out to a party.
Well I think I blabbed enough for now. Email me some details about yourself if you think we'd click. “Pic-4-Pic” I believe the team goes. This posting is real, it was a nice day today and looks to be nice tomorrow too (by looking over the weather). Please put your favorite time of year in your subject line so I know you are real. :) If I receive a link within your email that takes me to an age verification site or offers some nsa sex, I will most likely just delete your email.
(When sending emails, please put something in the subject line that tells me you're not spam! Also, be sure to include a couple recent photos in your email and I'll respond with a couple of mine . There's no sense in beating around the bush and wasting time on that matter!)
Are people who drive bright yellow cars serious? Only exception is a VW bug. Period.
What happened to Zoobas, those were amazing.
How come the new Pine-Sol is blue. Pines are green. Whatev.
If i wear a deep sea diving watch, should I make an effort to get around to diving again?
I almost feel obligated.
If i were a fish, i know for sure i would hang out near a seaside restaurant. That way I would just wait for the food to show up.
Thats a typical hour. And usually in that order.
I am very open minded, tend to be therapeutic when I dont try to be, and the best listener you could imagine. I love giving advice, and ive heard im pretty good at it.
Im told Im old fashioned in values, but I like to think I just have an older soul. Im drawn to people who are a bit older than myself, mostly because of this. But, I maintain a variety of diverse and meaningful personal relationships.
I am so ready for a change. I love meeting new people. I am always open to new friends, and if thats what becomes of this, I consider myself lucky. It seems like everyone wants to laugh, or be with someone who will make them laugh. I agree, I want the same.
But, I aslo enjoy serious, down to earth conversation as well. A balance is always good. I am a well rounded individual, I consider myself to be the kind of person that can get along with just about anyone. I am a thrill seeker, and I love my friends. I try and treat others the way I want to be treated. I am a firm believer that just because one has been through a lot, it does not mean that they have to have baggage. I am well traveled, and have been many places in my short life.
Loyalty is incredibly important to me.
The ideal person for me will be secure, settled in their own right, and will appreciate banter. Also, they will be intelligent emotionally, and spiritually, with knowledge of the facts and experiences of this world coming in a close second.
Someone whose soul might be slightly older than their body, that is always a good thing.
Pic for a pic. Im vertically challenged at 5'4, but i have a personality that makes up for that.
Peace and happiness are by far the most important things to me in life... Any other questions, just ask!
You should message me if:
You're single and believe in exclusive relationships - not a swinger
No babies - It all depends, send me a pic and we'll see what happens..
Not bigger than I am! 5'11" Athletic/Average
You can send a pic... I'll send a few back!
'Fun' things. Music (Indie, underground, etc. it's my main passion I suppose. I can be a total geek about this.) Guitar, writing, going to local shows, touring, meeting new people in new places, bowling, tattoos, dive bars, whiskey, indie film and otherwise, city culture in general, good friends...you get the idea. Basically a Minneapolis cliche..but maybe not quite.
'Basic' things..I'm 29, have my own place to live that's not my parents, (fuck, I hope so. I'm 29.)A vehicle, a job that pays me enough to live and have enough left over to have some fun. So there's all of the important to some, but maybe not too interesting to others, stuff. I know it's not to me.
So yeah. I'm not extremely picky. I guess if you are reading this and feel like responding, we would have some common interests, or maybe personalities that would mesh well. If your favorite restaurant is Applebee's, your favorite move is The Fast and the Furious, and you're really into cars and Nickelback..we probably wouldn't have much in common. But hell, who knows then, even. Maybe this all comes off dickish, but assure you it's not meant to. I'm pretty easy going. really.
Speaking of age, I guess I should address that, because I probably wouldn't date you if you're 19 anyway (unless you're exceptionally mature). I'd say an ideal age range would be between 22 and 28, any older or younger and it might be hard to click. And if it's important, I'm 5'10 and about 190 lbs/in shape. Again, not seeking perfection, but I'd be happiest with someone who I can get my arms around and don't need to look up to.
Wow, hope my ad wasn't too snarky or anything. I know I didn't say much about my interests or anything, but that's just part of the fun of getting to know someone. So, if the above sounds alright, and you're free of the major D's (drugs, disease, drama, dipshittiness), and are able to type an email containing more depth than an average text message, give me a shot, and I'll respond with a pic. And don't bother talking about the vikings/sports at all to prove you're real, that's not my thing, and bots are easy to spot anyway.
I have lived here in MN for about 15 months now and am enjoying it. I had spent the 8 years prior just north of Seattle. I am self employed, make money, have a car, rent a house, all the stuff you'd expect from a normal and stable guy.
Hobbies are art and antiques, photography, reading, writing, and spending time with my kids. You won't find this huge list of things that might equate more to the single life because I do spend time with my kids. I do look forward to meeting a normal and relatively stable woman and doing some things. I don't do the club thing, but am not opposed to a night out in any variety of ways. Concerts, dining out, etc. Not a big drinker, if any at all. Fine if you drink, but please know what moderation is and not need to be drunk every night of the week. (we lived that one for 10 years and have no desire to go back to that life style. I have no issues with anyone who drinks. Just know when to say when.)
I am 6'1", 258 retired football player build. So if your looking for a bean pole, move along. We all do need some kind of 'spark' when meeting someone, but I also know it's a lot more important to see someone on the inside and what will endure long after any material looks have faded. Please understand, that to me a sense of humor is more important than looks. being able to laugh and have a sense of humor and an idea of what you want out of life. Have a faith in something. be laid back, spontaneous, have a smile and see life with some degree of optimism. you dont need to be Mary Sunshine, but don't be a constant downer. Most important....Be Yourself.
I think communication needs to be there for both people. being inhibited or unable to talk doesn't get anyone anywhere. So Please be open to having enough vulnerability to express your hopes and dreams as well as your fears and open up a bit. It's a gradual thing of course. But just to be open to it.